Monday, April 21

My Sister's Wedding

Finally... All the hardwork for the past three months paid off. My sister's wedding last April 19 was a success (except that we had a slight rice shortage during the reception, hehehe!)

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As Matron of Honor, I was responsible for organizing the event from the gowns to the invitations and RSVP calls, the souvenirs, the mass, and the reception. My sister, her husband, and I went countless of times to Divisoria, Quiapo, and Taytay for the raw materials that we needed.

It was a low-budgeted Filipiniana wedding but we splurged on the food and the photography and videography of course. The food was catered but my brother-in-law's parents had one pig slaughtered to add viands to the buffet. Sa dami ng ulam, kinulang tuloy ang kanin! Hahaha! Ate Do's photographer friend (from the studio beside their store in Galleria) did the photo and video coverage. I'm sure the photos will be a hit! Elmer's (the photographer) style was unique and uso. Ate Do's hair and make-up was courtesy of my cousin Kuya Arnel (who was a make-up artist of Fanny Serrano's salon and Judy Ann Santos). He's also Ate Do's ninong (or should I say ninang?). Since she had to dress here in my house, I also had my hair and make-up done by Kuya Arnel (o di ba!) as well as Mama and Mama Babes (my mother-in-law who is a ninang). And since my sister had to do her pictorial in our bedroom, I had to clean up everything the night before and even scrubbed the walls to make it look fresh. We bought a new comforter just to make the beddings go well with my tangerine curtains (ang taray no?) and have the hotel room feel.

I designed the gowns and we bought the gold cloth and silver organza from Taytay where clothing materials are cheap. Manay, my mother's older sister, and my cousin Ate Lorna made the gowns. Ate Do's gown was ordered from a stall along Tabora in Divisoria. Her Maria Clara inspired gown was priced at Php 4,500 inclusive of the heart-shaped pillows that carried the coins and rings, cord, veil, tiara, and pouch. It was made of piƱa and embroidered with silver beads. My mother's Victorina gown was bought from the same area, ready-made, at Php 1,000!

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The flowers we ordered from a stall in Dangwa. We only paid Php 2,000 for everything meaning the bridal bouquet of roses, the bouquet that was thrown, my bouquet and 3 more bouquets of the bridesmaids, wrist corsages of the secondary sponsors, petals for the flower girls, the bouquet for the bridal car (our brand-new Tucson), and 16 pairs of rose corsages for the principal sponsors and parents of the bride and groom.

The souvenirs were also bought in Divisoria. For the ninongs and ninangs, since the wedding's theme was Filipiniana, we bought small old-fashioned glass lamps (lampara) for Php 20 a piece that came with ribbons and trimmings showing off the gold and silver motif of the wedding. For all the other guests we bought sandalwood fans for Php 15 a piece. I printed the tags on special paper and we attached them to the souvenirs with gold and silver ribbons.

The misalette was in pure Tagalog! It took me a couple of weeks to finish everything. I was lucky that I found a sample misallete in Tagalog from the internet. I made the misalette thru MS Publisher, printed it, and made copies thru our photocopying machine. Lucky was supposed to play the piano during the mass but he's one of the candle sponsors so I had to search midi files of liturgical songs, converted them to mp3, and burned the copies in an audio CD that I played during the mass. I sang the songs throughout the mass with my former choirmates.

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The wedding, as inexpensive as it turned out, was still memorable as we planned it to be. Family and friends were there to share the moment with the newlyweds. The college sweethearts are now officially Mr. & Mrs. Gene and Doreen Maglaya!

UPDATE: The template of the Tagalog wedding misalette is posted HERE.

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Saturday, April 12

The Art of a Good Marriage

The Art Of A Good Marriage

Wilfred Arlan Peterson

Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens.
A good marriage must be created.
In marriage the little things are the big things.
It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say "I love you" at least once a day.
It is never going to sleep angry.
It is at no time taking the other for granted;
the courtship should not end
with the honeymoon, it should continue through the years.
It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.
It is standing together facing the world.
It is forming a circle of love that gathers the whole family.
It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice,
but in the spirit of joy. It is speaking words of appreciation
and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
It is not looking for perfection in each other.
It is cultivating flexibility, patience,
understanding and a sense of humour.
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow old.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.
It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal,
dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal.
It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner.

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Tonight I am posting this poem for my sister who's getting married on the 19th and my brother whose marriage is undergoing a rough ride lately. I am now somehow stuck in the middle of being happy and sad. I think this is what being in limbo is all about. Hmm... life can play a real cruel joke.

We are all excited in the union that is to be solemnized next week. My sister and her fiance will already celebrated their 11th anniversary as BF/GF last June 2007. It is really about time that they say their "I Do's". We are all busy with the preparations. Being the Matron of Honor, I am in-charge of almost everything. We're down to our last five days and I still need to get the misalette printed and bound, the souvenirs bought tomorrow , Mama's gown, Papa's pants, and Dadijun's and Rap's Barong Tagalog bought on Monday, the Reception Repertoire uploaded on my Ipod (we will just hook the Ipod to the sound system), and the flowers bought at Dangwa on Friday night. Toxic but still exciting.

On the other hand...

The last week had been a hell of a rollercoaster ride of emotions for me. I felt the hurt in my brother's heart seeing that his marriage is on the rocks. I am now helping them in a way that I know is best, that is, letting them heal their wounds on their own. I pray that the time that they are now spending apart from each other will help them realize the value of the marriage that they are throwing away.

I hope that not only my sister and my brother get the most out of reading this poem, but all the married couples who read this.

Saturday, April 5

E-Loading Business for as low as Php1,300 initial investment!

Be an Iconex Dealer/Retailer (http://www.iconex.com.ph/)


* Sell E-load (ALL Networks!) and Prepaid Call Cards(ALL Networks!),
Phone Cards, Internet Surfing and Gaming Cards, Vote Cards, Review Cards and Utility Cards.

* No need to buy separate retailer sims as with the traditional e-loading business. Use your existing Cellphone number.

* No need to buy separate cellphones for loading. Gastos pa ito. Use your existing phone!

* Profit is still at 12-13% as with traditional loading business.

* Buy Load Wallet by depositing thru Metrobank, Banco de Oro, Union Bank, and Bank of Commerce. Or you can buy using your Smart Money or G-Cash credits. You will be spared from the hassle of going to your dealer in person to buy Load Wallet.

* Powered by Load Central. Iconex is the marketing arm of Load Central. Visit http://www.loadcent ral.com.ph/ products. html for the list of products that you can offer. Webtools available so you can sell e-load and check stocks thru the internet. E-load selling is sent thru vanity number 2948 unlike other e-loading businesses (like Wi-max) kaya hindi nali-late ang pag-receive ng load ng customer!

For those interested in being retailers:

Initial investment for retailer is only Php 300 for the registration fee and initial Load Wallet of Php 1,000.

For those interested in being dealers:

Initial investment for retailer is only Php 12,999 inclusive of 50 retailer
cards, sales paraphernalia. As dealer, you can sell all products of
Load Central to your Retailers and enjoy 2% override profit from their
individual sales. There is also an online tool so you can monitor your
sales thru the internet. Earn additional profit by registering dealers
under your account.

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I have been in the E-loading Business for a year now. Medyo hassle ang pagkakaroon ng 3 separate retailer sims for Smart, Globe, and Sun loading. Kaya nakita ko ang convenience ng Iconex. Mas dumami pa ang products ko. This is perfect even for those of you who do not have a store. Kahit sa bahay lang, classmates o sa mga ka-officemates lang pwede na.

So what are you waiting for? Be an Iconex Dealer/Retailer now! :)